Julina Bezold
performer Tomas Claessens
Europe Comfort Zone?
a research-hued, unfinished stream of thoughts by wholina
In Europe, fortunately, most of our physical and safety needs are met. In times when so much seems to go wrong, we sometimes forget how valuable it is to have food and clothing in abundance, to have a roof over our heads and to live in the world's most successful peace project. The psychologist Abraham Maslow has created a pyramid model of human needs which states that only when the basic needs (physiological, safety) are met we as humans can deal with other stages like love & belonging, esteem and self-actualization.
During research we have also encountered an experiment of existential psychiatrist Irvin D. Yalom, who undertook the same experiment multiple times: Three to four hundred people, men and women - by no means desperate or in need of help, but throughout successful, life-affirming and well-dressed people with appropriate charisma are asked to pair up and ask each other a simple question: “What do you want?”_
- They are equally stirred up in their innermost being. They call for people who are lost forever - deceased or disappeared parents, spouses, children and friends: “I want to see you again” - “I want your love” - “I want you to be proud of me” - “I want you to know how much I love you and how sorry I am that I never told you that” - “I want you to come back - I’m so lonely. “ - “I want to finally experience the childhood I never had.” - “I want to be healthy again.” - “ I want to be loved and respected.” - “I want to give meaning to my life.” - “I want to achieve something, have influence, play an important role, I want to be remembered.” So many desires. And so many pains that break out within a few minutes. Pain of fate. Pain of life. An ubiquitous pain that constantly slumbers under the membrane of life. A pain that is all too easily stirred up.
( Irvin D. Yalom; “Love’s executioner and other Tales of Psychotherapy)
So, if within a very short time, these desires burst out, couldn't we assume that we all share them? The desire for love, respect, meaningful achievements and to remain remembered. While we might share these desires with our loved ones, we often forget that our distant, superficial, daily environment shares exactly the same worries, fears and desires as we do. The cashier, the new employee, the people on the street… Regardless of nationality, gender, language group, culture, profession or sexuality, we believe that this is where individuality becomes uniformity. In our notion, this is where people could be more understanding and sympathetic with each other. In fact, more open and kinder. As an ironic comment we translated these wishes to Esperanto. A language that was planned to connect people in Europe, but in fact is not understood by the majority. To us a symbol of the separation that exists between mankind. For the performance, we silkscreen printed these phrases on the dress, surrounded by the literal comfort zone we’re in, our projection surface that we show to the outside, revealing the underlying human desires. Followed by the act of true revelation - being naked. An appeal to our equality, not our differences, a food for thought for more understanding and attention to our social environment. We also looked at the ambivalence of humour and seriousness. Something that looks funny or comical from the outside becomes something human through the removal of layers.